Gender
The umbrella term for my gender identity is nonbinary, meaning I don't fit into the gender binary. The specific term for my experience is agender, meaning I don't identify strongly with any gender. There are traits from multiple genders with which I identify, but I don't lean strongly in any one direction.
Privilege-wise, I am perceived as a gender-nonconforming member of the sex I was assigned at birth, but I don't experience dysphoria or discomfort at being misgendered. I experienced a fair amount of bullying for my gender as a child, especially by my dad, but I've been lucky not to have faced much violence or harassment as an adult. I don't identify as trans, but terms like "queer" and "genderqueer" are ones I'm beginning to be more comfortable with---which is hard, because the former was often hurled at me as a slur as a child.
The pronouns that feel most accurate for me are they/them, but I have no issues with masculine or feminine pronouns when applied to me. I feel no differently about any of them.
Relatedly, I'm demisexual and grayromantic. Subjects of gender, sex and romance don't hold much general interest for me, and I rarely discuss them except with people I'm close to. Obviously I support trans and queer liberation in all forms, but due to my differences I struggle to feel like I belong in trans- or queer-centered communities; My neurodivergence makes me struggle to feel like I belong anywhere, but that said, I feel more accepted in queer and trans spaces than any part of "mainstream" society.